Why I Unplug

Spring is upon us, and the season brings thunderstorms with it in most of the U.S. Thunderstorms mean lighting.  Do you know how dangerous lightning is to your electronics?  Do you unplug your computers, televisions, stereo systems and any other electronic devices before a storm?  If not, why not?

Let me tell you a true story.

Some fifteen years ago, my family and I went to a concert in a city about fifty miles away. It was a great concert and we all had a good time. We noticed on the drive back that there were increasingly large puddles on the ground as we neared home, but didn’t think much more about it. It was late and we were all exhausted, so we went directly to bed.

My youngest daughter, who has always been an early riser, was the first one up the next morning. Her favorite thing to do at that time was to listen to the radio or a CD on the stereo (with earphones) and rock in the rocking chair. She was dismayed when she turned on the stereo and found it didn’t work.

Instead she tried to turn on the television, but it wasn’t working either.  Since the lights were on, she knew the electricity was functioning, but apparently not much else was. As a last resort, she decided to turn on the computer and play games. You guessed it. Computer wasn’t working either.

At that point she was still the only person awake, so she grabbed a book and tried to read, but she was understandably pretty distraught.

Once the rest of us got up, we went through the house, checking everything to see what worked and what didn’t.  We didn’t know until later, when we talked to neighbors, that there had been a very bad thunderstorm the night before.

There’s no way to know for sure, of course, but we have to assume that lightning hit either our house or one of the power lines very near it. The final tally of destruction: stereo receiver, VCR, television, and computer. We were fortunate that the television and computer were both older and about due for replacement anyway.

We learned our lesson. Now when there’s a thunderstorm approaching, we unplug everything, not just from the electrical lines, but from the cable as well. If we’re going out of town for a day, we check the weather forecast. If we’re leaving for longer, we unplug everything just for safety.

Yes, it’s a bit inconvenient, but it would be more than just inconvenient to replace our electronic equipment these days. And since I’m an author and web designer, the loss of a computer would be more than just inconvenient. It wouldn’t kill my business because I back up relentlessly, including using an automatic, offline back up service in Carbonite. But I would likely lose several days of work time, replacing hardware and restoring software and data.

I’d rather lose an hour of work time than risk losing days’ worth.

I unplug when the weather turns nasty. Unless you live in a place that isn’t prone to thunderstorms, I strongly suggest you do so as well.

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Shapeshifter Children?

Anyone who knows me will tell you I’m basically a quiet sort, laid-back, and predictable. Typical Capricorn who doesn’t handle “change” well. Some of my friends will actually conspire to bring chaos into my life just to see how I’ll react. One such friend decided that I needed a pet. A puppy. I fought the “suggestion” for all I was worth. I thought I’d won. That’s why, on this past Christmas Eve I found myself with that friend, in a pet store, where I abruptly became a puppy mommy. Sigh. My life has been total chaos ever since. Who knew that one little Brussels Griffon, adorably cute, would turn out to be a were-beast in disguise.

She is total destruction when she gets in her hyper mode. My normally “spotless” home has been turned upside down. What can be destroyed, has been. The only time she slows down is when she suddenly collapses for a short nap. She rules this house. And me. Every time she does something naughty I find myself trying hard not to smile/laugh at her “I’m so innocent and so cute, dont yell at me” face. The little beast has no idea what discipline means.

It got me to thinking. Is this what it would be like living with little shapeshifter children? Are they perfectly adorable and sweet one minute, and then shapeshift into little terrors the next? Do their parents have a hard time disciplining them? I mean, how could you scold an adorable little kitten/tiger/lion/etc or puppy/wolf/etc when they are just being their cute little shapeshifting selves? HOW would you discipline a shapeshifter child? Can you just imagine the scene:

Little Evy climbs on mommy’s antique coffee table and shoves her expensive lotus-shaped lead crystal vase off. It shatters. Before mommy can yell, little Evy quickly shifts into her puppy self and pulls the “I’m a sweet innocent little puppy. Please dont scold.” trick. Works every time. Mommy melts. Evy runs away, knowing she’s gotten away with it again…

Darn it. I loved that vase.

But, I digress. I’m realizing that I feel sorry for shapeshifter parents. Children are hard enough to raise without having the added built-in terror of being able to shift and get away with just about everything.

I’m wondering too, how long it will be before authors start including shifter children in their books. Will the Reader like to read about the little terrors? What do you think? Shifter children in the paranormal romance genre? Or should we just stick to writing what we know? Because —-GRIN—if you’re anything like me, you soon discover that children (in pet form or human) keep you learning something new about them every day!

Lets hear your opinion about shifter children.

Happy Reading HUGS,
Kari

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I’m Not a Failure!

I sold another book! I just received my signed copy of my contract from my publisher, Blush, the publisher formerly known as Cerridwen. Love them!!

YaY!

I’m feeling good from my head to my shoes. It’s been a while. Too long. My last book was published in July 09, so yeah, it’s been hundreds of days, thousands of hours, million…you get the picture. I wish I could say it has been easy living through this “dry spell” but it really hasn’t.

Let’s face it, writers have varying degrees of insecurity and even at various times. All the stories you hear about editors and agents holding the angsty writer’s hand, writers tearfully calling editor/agent wailing, “I can’t do it,” bestselling authors telling us during workshops about that moment when panic sets in every-single-time. As a whole, we writers are quite the Jello-y bunch. Probably because we care so deeply about what we write, the whole opening a vein thing. We care about our fans and want to keep them fed, keep them entertained. But I suspect that a fair amount of our insecurity comes from that occupational hazard known as rejection. Yes, I know, it’s a job, it’s a business, we should not take rejection and setbacks personally…wwwweeellll that’s easier said than done.

Good writing is personal, it’s introspective, it’s reaching out of our comfort zones. So when we get rejections, it rocks our foundations.

Wish I could say I was proficient, able to pigeonhole my emotions, but I’m not…I’m jello. When I get the old “thanks but no thanks” it makes me want to cry.

But I’ve learned a few things over this dry spell. In no particular order, here are my lessons learned.

#1 I cannot stay in that dark place but I definitely wallow in it for bit. It’s okay to have a lil meltdown with that rejection. Cry, throw things, scream into that pillow. Our culture has a scornful response to extreme emotions, especially negative ones. We’re supposed to control ourselves. I say the hell with that! As long as no one is hurt or property damaged, I let it all hang out. It keeps me from being eaten up by all the dark feelings. I think of it as a cleansing.

#2 It’s okay to have doubts I just don’t let it keep me from moving forward. There is no job, career, or calling where a person never has doubts. It’s human nature. Doubt happens. And as much as we like to think we authors are something special, we ain’t all that. So we might as well do what everyone else does and muddle through.

#3 I am my own cheerleading squad. I am very fortunate to have a great encouraging family and an awesome network of writing friends. I feel for any writer who doesn’t. They are the best, they are my well of cool sweet water. When I feel down, I list all of my accomplishments on paper and recite them to myself every day. I celebrate the small successes with pampering, maybe I give myself a facial, I get a new haircut, chocolate is always a great mini-celebration. Oh and shopping. Celebrate with retail therapy.

#4 Time is relative. I know it sounds scientific but it’s true. Blah to publish or perish. Blah to “you have to put out three books a year,” blah to you’re a has-been, blah to writing every day, 10,000 words a day etc. Your process is yours. Repeat—yours. I love writing but I couldn’t do it 7 days a week, 52 weeks a year. Some can. I write at my own pace and put the computer away without guilt.

#5 Persevere. Don’t stop writing. Yes, I take breaks, I take vacations but I don’t stop. Every workshop I’ve ever attended the author/teachers have one thing that they all say. Don’t stop writing, sending in those queries, partials, fulls. It will happen if you keep at it.

I give you details of my next release–WORLDS APART–as I get them.

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Free eBooks

For anyone who might be interested — I’m participating in Smashwords’ Read an ebook week, with several of my books.

My vampire novella, A VAMPIRE’S CHRISTMAS CAROL, is free until this Saturday, March 10.
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/109662

My romantic paranormal suspense novel, MAGIC, MURDER AND MICROCIRCUITS, is also free until March 10.
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/100257

My award-winning romantic suspense novel, A QUESTION OF FIRE, is 75% off until March 10.
https://www.smashwords.com/books/view/43245

Look in the box in the upper right-hand corner of the page for the code to claim these deals.

Hurry, time is limited!

Karen McCullough

http://www.kmccullough.com

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Romance Author Newsletters — PROS and CONS?

What do you think? Are Author Newsletters a good thing or one that really isn’t necessary? As Authors, we have to promote our books in any possible format. We join Yahoo Groups to interact with Readers and other authors. We attend Conferences, send out Bookmarks and other little gifts, have Contests, do Blogs, etc.

But, is having a Newsletter one step too many? What do you, as a Reader, think? Do you like receiving the latest news from your favorite authors, in a format that comes through an email list?

One on hand, Newsletters can let you know in advance the latest news. Subscribers get the first chance at Contests, over other Readers who don’t receive the newsletter. Readers get the chance to become more personable with their favorite authors through the newsletter.

On the other hand, receiving a lot of newsletters can also fill up your email box quickly. And where do you find the time to read them all?

And, the BIG Question is… what would you prefer to see (OR not see?) in those Newsletters? An author friend, Mary Corrales, and I are starting a Newsletter for the beginning of March. We want it to have alot of Reader “participation”, so we’re including Recipes, Book Reviews on other Author’s books, Contests, and even a “Question and Answer” section we hope Readers will join in. It’s a start. We’re planning on including excerpts from our books, and even one-liner teasers from other author’s books (with their permission, of course). And we’re open to suggestions for what else Readers would like to see.

Let me know what you think about Newsletters. Leave a comment, your email address, and be entered to win TWO FREE Short Stories.

Indicate if you would like to Join the mailing list for our Newsletter “Sweet and Spicy Times”.

Visit my site: http://www.authorkari.com/

See Mary’s site: http://www.authormaryc.com/

HAPPY READING HUGS! Kari

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